If your guy is always busy doing everything from visiting his sick grandmother to helping a friend move, there's a problem and soon, this guy will run out of excuses to tell you. He takes a while to return your calls or e-mails. Ask yourself, how often you hear from this guy. If it's just once or twice a week, he's not your boyfriend. He's just a guy that you see sometimes. If he's really that busy, how are you going to make a real relationship work? -- Tasha Cunningham, tasha@loveawake.com